I sent out invitations last Thursday (FIVE DAYS AGO) and requested an RSVP. The party is Saturday. I have received two responses -- one kid is coming, the other can't make it.
I am freaking out. This is why I do not have parties for my kids. Every single aspect of it makes me a nervous wreck. The planning, the waiting, the actual partying. It's bad. I'm just not one of those mommies.
To make matters worse I gave them my business phone number to call and my e-mail and then Sunday evening I discovered I had UNPLUGGED MY BUSINESS ANSWERING MACHINE. So if anyone tried calling over the weekend they wouldn't get the machine.
So my question for you is this -- is it rude or to desperate for me to send an e-mail tomorrow to ask if kids are coming or not. MH says it's desperate. I'm kind of feeling pretty damn desperate at this point.
So I'm asking my bloggy friends for help. Should I just calm down and wait? Or should I e-mail them?